I just wanted to prove that I had a legitimate four-year relationship with Grant and that it was still ongoing while she was getting set up with him.

After what felt like ages, she finally replied: [Grant's mom told me he was single, which is why I agreed to the blind date. I didn't mean to get in the middle of anything.]

I said: [I'm not blaming you; you're a victim in this, too. I'm here to help you.]

[Help me?]