It seems that she didn't want me to go, it's nothing more than creating a single person image, or she thought I was not presentable.
But that man obviously knew about my existence.
That left only one reason.
She thought I was not presentable!
She always thought I don't have money and earn too little.
She said her best friend's husband gives her best friend how much money and buys how many gifts every month.
And always urged me to buy a house in full before marriage, and it had to be in her name to give her a guarantee.
She also said that the dowry of 40,000 dollars cannot be less, it was for her younger brother to marry a wife.
Before, her brother complained that the job she arranged for him was too tiring. She blamed me for not being able to find a better job for her brother, and thought I was useless.
Her brother has a community college degree, but he has never worked since graduation. He spent his days playing games at home.
I found this job through personal connections.
She even said that after we get married, I have to give all my earnings to her for safekeeping.
Luckily, I haven't gotten married yet. I was not foolish enough to give all my money to her.