I liked that. Ghosts were hard to kill.

When the children were three, I made my first public appearance at a tech conference.

I walked on stage to give a keynote speech, four hundred people in the audience, cameras from every major publication pointed at me.

I wore a black suit that cost more than the entire wardrobe I had owned as a Sterling wife.

My hair was pulled back severely. My makeup was minimal. I looked nothing like the soft, accommodating girl Julian had married.

I looked like power.

“My name is Nora Vance,” I said, my voice carrying across the silent auditorium. “And I am here to tell you that the old rules of venture capital are dead.”

I talked about investing in people, not just ideas.

About backing founders from unconventional backgrounds.

About building sustainable companies instead of chasing quick exits.

The audience was riveted.

After my speech, I was swarmed by reporters, founders, investors who wanted a piece of what I was building.

One reporter asked the question I had been waiting for.

“Ms. Vance, there are rumors you were previously married to Julian Sterling. Can you comment?”

The room went silent.