1. He Finds Reasons to Talk to You: You’re not just bumping into him; he’s creating reasons for contact. A funny meme that reminded him of you, a question about work, a “how was your day?” text. He keeps the conversation flowing because he enjoys connecting with you.

  2. He Makes an Effort to See You: A guy with a crush will move mountains to get face-to-face time. He’ll suggest coffee, ask about your weekend plans to see if he can join, or even just pop by your desk to say hello. If he’s consistently initiating plans, he’s interested.

  3. His Body Language is an Open Book: Watch for these tell-tale signs:

    • The Lean-In: During conversation, his torso is angled toward you. He’s closing the physical distance.

    • Pupil Dilation: His pupils may appear larger when he looks at you—a subconscious sign of attraction.

    • Preening: He might adjust his hair, smooth his shirt, or sit up straighter when you’re around.

    • Mirroring: He subconsciously copies your gestures, like taking a sip of his drink when you do.

The Subtle (But Telling) Behavioral Clues

These signs are a little quieter but speak volumes about his growing interest.