By the time I met Daniel, I had clawed my way into something like stability. Not luxury. Not ease. Just a life with solid edges. I had finished my associate degree one class at a time. I had a job in medical billing that came with health insurance, a 401(k), and the first paid vacation I had ever seen in my life. I had a small townhouse with beige carpet and a secondhand couch I was embarrassingly proud of because it matched. My refrigerator stayed full. My tires were rotated on schedule. When the electric bill arrived, I paid it before the due date and felt, every single time, as if I had committed a private act of defiance against everything my early life had predicted for me.

Daniel felt safe from the beginning. Not exciting in the way some men are exciting when they mistake inconsistency for charm, but grounded. He remembered details. He showed up when he said he would. He listened more than he talked. On our third date he noticed my gas tank was near empty and filled it without making a performance out of it. That kind of care mattered to me more than flowers ever could have.