My father pleaded guilty to felony financial exploitation of an elderly person and attempted theft related to the property documents. The neglect charge was reduced but not erased; it remained part of the record and sentencing considerations. My mother pleaded guilty to a lesser exploitation charge and misdemeanor neglect, with cooperation requirements and restitution obligations. Neither went to prison for as long as part of me wanted. The world rarely delivers punishment in satisfying shapes.
Dad received jail time, probation, mandatory restitution, and a permanent order barring him from handling finances for any vulnerable adult. Mom received probation, community service, restitution, and a no-contact order regarding Grandpa unless he requested otherwise through counsel.
He did not.
The restitution was mostly theoretical at first. They had spent much of what they stole. Their house—really the house they had bought with debts and appearances—went on the market. The SUV disappeared. Jewelry vanished. My father’s golf clubs, which he once treated better than most people, were sold. Money came back in pieces.
Grandpa did not watch the auctions.