I canceled the shared credit cards and took him off my health insurance policy. My lawyer, a sharp woman named Tessa, discovered that Spencer had been using my address to run a fake consulting firm.

He had used my financial stability to trick clients into thinking he was a successful businessman. When the legal notices started arriving, Spencer sent me dozens of desperate emails.

He tried to act like he was the victim and claimed that I was being cruel for setting boundaries. One email even said that my “attitude” was the reason I couldn’t keep a man.

I didn’t cry when I read his words because I finally saw them for what they were. He was a predator who had found a soft spot in my heart and moved in.

Within two months, his business partners walked away and his sister stopped speaking to him. I spent that time in therapy learning why I had allowed someone to treat me like a bank account for so long.

I eventually bought a new place in a different neighborhood that was filled with light and plants. One night, my best friend Zoey came over to help me finish the last of the decorating.