At first Eleanor found him entertaining. Then warm. Then disarming.
He listened to her ideas as if they mattered. He made her laugh after eighteen-hour workdays. He confessed insecurities in exactly the doses that make women feel chosen without forcing men to surrender real power. He said he admired that she didn’t perform femininity for approval. He said she felt like rest.
When she told him she came from a family he would recognize if she named it, he shrugged and said, “Then don’t name it.”
It was, she would later understand, one of the most effective lines anyone had ever spoken to her.