If Desmond ever tried to return to the company, contest authority, challenge my estate, or manipulate the children through false narratives that escalated into legal interference, I wanted enough evidence to bury every lie beneath paper.
Karen, unsurprisingly, attempted social damage. I learned through three different channels that she was telling people I had become unstable after Warren’s death. That I was “isolating.” That I had turned on Desmond out of grief and paranoia. That “the old Nora” would never have done something so drastic. The old Nora. As if my primary failure was evolving beyond usefulness to her.
Miriam sent one letter.
It was six pages long and so precise that one of Karen’s friends later described it to Diane—who told me over lunch—as “the most terrifying piece of paper I’ve ever heard described.” The defamation stopped.
My grandchildren were the tenderest part of all of it.