• What can they still do on their own.
  • What do they truly struggle with.
  • What do they want.
  • What support exists locally.
  • What changes could make the home safer.

Most importantly, involve them. An older person is not an object to be moved. They are a person with history, opinions, and emotions that deserve respect.

Do not decide out of fear or exhaustion alone. Talk openly. Ask for help. Research thoroughly. Always place dignity above convenience.