Over the next week, things moved fast in the practical way life sometimes does once the emotional decision has already been made. The attorney explained that because I had clear proof I made the car payments, we could pursue reimbursement if Derek refused to sign it over or compensate me. She also walked me through the basics of custody in plain language that made my hands stop shaking. Wanting stability, child support, and documentation was not outrageous. It was responsible.
Dad came with me to every appointment, but he never spoke for me.
That mattered.
He wasn’t taking my life over.
He was standing beside me while I took it back.
Eventually Derek agreed to meet at a mediation office. Patricia came too, of course, as if she had some divine right to participate in every corner of her son’s adulthood.
Under fluorescent lights in a neutral conference room, the truth had far less room to hide.
The mediator asked direct questions.
Who had paid the car loan?
I slid the records across the table.
Who had been Evan’s primary caregiver?
That answer existed in work schedules, pediatric appointments, and plain common sense.
What living arrangement best supported the child immediately?