It’s something that unfolds—or doesn’t—depending on what comes after.

What I do know is this:

I no longer confuse forgiveness with access.

Boundaries aren’t punishment.

They’re protection.

Loving someone doesn’t require surrendering your life to their expectations.

I learned that the door that closed behind me on the day of the funeral wasn’t the end of my story.

It was the beginning of the one I chose for myself.

And when I finally stood on the right side of it, I understood something Margaret had known all along.

Sometimes the greatest act of love is refusing to disappear.