My sister blasted “INFERTILE, DIVORCED, FAILURE” across a 10-foot screen at her wedding while 200 guests laughed—my mother sipped wine, my father called it “just a joke.”

Paige and Garrett.

Garrett asks for couples counseling. Paige refuses. She calls it an insult.

By the second week, Garrett packs a suitcase and moves into his parents’ guest house. They’re not divorced, but they’re not together.

The book club that Vivian has hosted every third Thursday for 11 years quietly relocates to someone else’s living room. No one tells her.

I don’t follow any of this in real time. I’m in Richmond, back at my desk, back at my drafting table. I have a courthouse renovation to finalize and a heritage project to present.

Marcus reads me a post from the Millbrook community Facebook page while we’re eating lunch. Someone shared a photo of the slideshow screen with the caption: This happened at the Whitmore-Lindon wedding. Shame on the Lindons. Eighty-seven reactions. Forty-two comments.

“You didn’t do this to them,” Marcus says, closing his laptop.

“I know. They did this to themselves. You just stopped covering for it.”

I eat my sandwich. It tastes better than anything served at table 14.

Three weeks after the wedding, a Tuesday evening, I’m reviewing blueprints for the Millbrook Heritage Project. Eleanor’s foundation wants the presentation ready by month’s end.