I was the one who drove Mom to chemotherapy appointments and stayed with her for hours. I cleaned her up when she got sick, organized her medications carefully, argued with insurance companies endlessly, and sat awake during long nights when she was too afraid to sleep.
My mother passed away eight months before that afternoon, and the sympathy disappeared faster than I ever expected. Suddenly I was no longer the devoted daughter who sacrificed everything, and instead I became the woman still living in her childhood bedroom.
My father started saying I needed to face reality and stop hiding at home. Tiffany openly called me a burden, and Uncle Walter enjoyed asking loudly when I planned to finally grow up and act like an adult.
None of them wanted to hear that I had been applying for jobs for months without success. None of them cared that grief had a way of slowing time until every day felt heavy and impossible to push through.