That does not mean I was never lonely. I was. There were Sunday afternoons when I looked at the quiet house and felt every thirty years of being the extra daughter, the one who learned early how to entertain herself without mistaking self-sufficiency for preference. There were moments when I imagined what it might have been like to have a mother who showed up at noon with a casserole and a roll of paper towels and said, “Tell me where to put things.” Or a father who came by with a drill and measured curtain rods. Or a brother who texted, “Proud of you,” and meant it without irony or competition or after the fact.
But loneliness is not the worst human condition. Being surrounded by people who make you feel lonelier than solitude is worse. I knew that now with a precision I had not possessed before.
Three months after the screenshots, my father wrote me a letter.
Not an email. Not a text forwarded through my mother. A real letter in his unsteady block print, posted from the strip-mall mailbox near the hardware store he always used because he distrusted newer places for reasons no one had ever understood.
I let the envelope sit on the kitchen counter for almost a day before opening it.