I had graduated at the top of my program. I had offers from firms in San Francisco, Seattle, Boston. I had parents who loved me fiercely, sometimes inconveniently, always correctly. When Jake came along—smart, attentive, modest, so unlike the peacocking men I’d spent college dodging—he felt like a refuge I hadn’t known I was looking for.
My parents distrusted him almost immediately.
My mother said he watched too carefully, as if he were memorizing weak points. My father said that men who called three times in an evening were not romantic; they were territorial. I accused them of being unfair. Snobbish. Judgmental. I said all the things daughters say when they’re young enough to mistake opposition for proof they’ve chosen boldly.
I married him anyway.
Moved to Ohio anyway.
Signed papers I barely read because I trusted him anyway.
In the beginning, it had all been subtle.
Susan smiling as she corrected the way I folded towels.
Robert asking if my salary was “really necessary” now that I was married.
Jake suggesting it would be easier if his mother handled “household finances” for a while because I was stressed and adjusting to a new city.